Her90 Day Fiancefranchisejourney first started withBozo Vrdoljak, a Croatian man she met online.

They chatted for several months before she finally got the courage to fly abroad.

Unfortunately though, Bozo didn’t feel any chemistry and they parted ways.

Vanja and Bozo from 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days hug in a promo

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Vanja’s focus switched toJosko Luketin,who had his ownset of red flags.

Neither of the relationships worked out, and she ended the season the same way she began: single.

Even the90 Day: The Single Lifespin-off is not set up in that traditional format.

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The storyline thenhighlighted her adventures with other men, adding a totally different feel to the show.

Even onThe Single Life, most stars go on to date Americans.

Meanwhile, she stuck to the international storyline and embraced the changes as they came.

90 Day Fiance - Before the 90 Days TV Poster

Is it better if this is all an act?

That applies to this season and past seasons.

This season I watched stars likeRayne Fernandezforce her beliefs or desires onto her partner.

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As a result, she destroyed a long-term bond.

Vanja clearly has no interest in playing that game.

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