However, Shekinah made it known that she wouldn’t tolerate Sarper’s behavior much longer.
He needed to make some big changes quickly.
Sarper actually took her seriously and became more mindful of how his actions affected others.
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Yet, I think this shift in their dynamic seems to be equally toxic.
In an attempt torespect his Turkish culture, Shekinahfollowed his lead for a while.
But slowly but surely, Shekinah began standing up for herself and speaking up when Sarper wronged her.
She wouldn’t let the small mistakes slide.
I do think it’s important for couples to set healthy boundaries.
It’s important for couples to compromise in a mutually beneficial way.
They both have some growth and healing to dobefore they can really thrive as a duo.
Is anyone really getting anything out of this?
But Sarper found a woman who’s changed the way he thinks and feels about dating in general.
Instead, she seems dismissive and redirects him to her own desires instead of finding a middle ground.
Their relationship started with Sarper being the more self-centered one.
